Over the past several weeks, I have felt so vulnerable, sad and disconnected from my husband.
Tears and tears of unexpressed anger, grief and deep sadness has surfaced to be healed.
Are you wired for love or war? How did your early childhood memories impact your ability to create a healthy, loving secure partnership?
According to Stan Tatkin, author of Wired For Dating and Wired For Love, we are instinctually wired for war first and foremost.
It allows us to survive at its most primal function.
But what about LOVE?
Why do some people find it so much easier and how does our upbringing impact our current relationships?
Tune in today as I share how Attachment Theory impacts our current relationships.
After listening, let us know if you identify more with the Secure, Island or Wave attachment.
I’ll let you know what I have discovered and how my 5 year old version of me is now being nurtured and heard.
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Totally understand that, grew up in home where “children are to be seen , not heard” mentality!
It is so important for our children to have a voice. Secrets in our home were the cause of so much pain.
Dr. Kelly Yes, I made sure my kids had a voice and knew that home was a safe place to say whatever they wanted or needed and to be able to vent. And yes that generation was so good at sweeping things under the rug and acting like it never happened!