This month has been absolutely amazing for many of the women in our community. I have been receiving texts, videos, comments, phone calls…you name it about dreams coming true.
Just these past 3 weeks, I have received notices of 2 engagements, a baby being born, women falling in love, a woman leaving her job and traveling the country for a year with her new boyfriend and so many other victories.
If we don’t celebrate our victories or “brag”, how will we know that dreams DO come true.
Now, you may not have had such a fantastic few weeks and maybe stories of celebrations tend to get you down.
In today’s #transformationaltuesday I am going to share with you what YOU need to do to get your dreams to come true.
If someone else has something we want than we know that it is POSSIBLE
So, what does a rear view mirror and a sunflower have to do with your dreams coming true?
Tune in and I’ll tell you all about what you will need so that you will have the next dream story to share with me.
Want to feel Irresistible and get back on track for loving your life.
***How To Get Your Needs Met: Even If Men Are From Mars***
In the past several months, I have been studying men and how they best respond to women. I feel so blessed to be married to Richard Schuh who meets my needs in the most unbelievable ways. (We just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary this past week, camping in the mountains of Colorado)
As a transformational coach for women, most of the women I work with are struggling to get their needs met by the men in their lives. They complain that these men don’t care, are lazy, not attuned to detail etc.
Ladies…men are from MARS…but you don’t need to learn martian to better communicate with them.
If you are not getting your needs met, you must be willing to take 50% of the responsibility. You see, our brains are TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
Bathing in Testosterone…men are Singular Focussed vs women who’s brains bathe in Estrogen causing them to have Diffuse Awareness.
As explained in the video, this is a GOOD thing!
The KEY to getting your NEEDS met is to understand our differences and to be able to communicate more clearly in our requests as described in this video.
If you are needing some more support to better your relationships with men, book a complementary Irresistible You Coaching Session with me at www.meetme.so/drkelly
Change can come on fast and can produce lots of anxiety, hopelessness and disappointment. We had a winter storm in Boulder in May. It uprooted and destroyed many trees, beautiful flowers, and plants.Nature is such a great teacher. Join us in today’s #TransformationalTuesday to learn what you can do when unexpected change comes your way. #grounding #peace #coaching #drkelly #deeproots #perpspective #springstorm #whenstormscome #findstrength #relationshipcoach #roottorise #deepandwide #groundingexercise #girlsleadership #whenthingsfallapart #faith #unstoppable #goddessquiz
What Goddess Archetype are you? Take our 2 minute quiz at the link below. https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/5c7086327f0fb90014eadd8f
We are all starving for love and connection and yet we have forgotten how to get these basic human needs met. Think about it. When someone asks you how you are doing, how often do you respond with something negative or really shallow? Negativity breeds more negativity and before you know it you WILL be depressed if you weren’t before. I challenge you this week with the rubber band test. If you find yourself connecting through negativity, STOP and pull a rubber band hard on your wrist and then shift your focus to something positive. Look for what’s right in your world. There HAS to be something if you look hard enough. I also encourage you to really stop and listen to those who you speak with. Be present. Really engage with them. We are living in a world that is crying for connection. BE that person to connect with and before you know it your heart will burst open and you will feel more love and connection.
If you are a woman with herpes, allow our Sisterhood at Pink Tent to support you. There is 1 day left to register for our Secrets To Success Course. I only offer this 1x/ year and class starts this Thursday. Give yourself the gift of love and connection with sisters who really GET you and can support and uplift you AND a doctor who has helped women just like you. Invest in YOU today! #hsv2 #coachella #herpessupport #drkelly #connectwithlove #positivevibes #datingwithherpes #TransformationalTuesday #rubberbandtest #gratitudehacks #herpesstigma
It’s Break The Stigma Day!!! Today I am taking a stand for women with “H” to break the silence and break the stigma. I want you to feel happy, healthy and totally loved. You deserve it! and….I know it is a journey that starts with a single step. Take that step with me today as I share my story, resources and one BIG thing that has helped me to find peace and my happily ever after! I am a women who is happily married to the man of my dreams. We have a beautiful, healthy little girl and had it not been for this ONE THING….none of this would have been possible for me. I would probably still be single and miserable wondering where Mr Right is. I am so excited to take a stand for YOU today to create a magical life…a happily ever after. #breakthestigma #pinktent #drkelly #btsd #whatstigma
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Are you a woman with herpes who feels all alone? Depressed? Unworthy of love? Did you know April is STD awareness month? While there is no cure for herpes, there IS community. So many women out there are just waiting for a cure so they can return to happiness. This line of thinking puts your whole life on hold. The truth is, they may or may not find a cure for herpes in your lifetime. There is another way to access HAPPINESS and I will be talking about that today. You are NOT a victim! I see you and know that you deserve love and happiness NOW. Not tomorrow, or a week from now, several months from now or years from now…but NOW. Time is precious! Listen in on today’s #TransformationalTuesday conversation. This is a conversation and quick tip that you don’t want to miss. Want to fast track your healing and happiness? Join our FREE community of women supporting women with std’s and sexual abuse at www.PinkTent.com/forum
#btsd #breakthestigma #whatstigma #herpesstigma #PinkTent #foundationscourse #DrKelly #happinessnow
How do you know if you are ready to date again? Let’s face it, dating is hard enough as it is and many women struggle to know when it’s time.
Whether you just broke up with someone or you have been single for years, there are things to consider before putting yourself out there. Today I am going to share some key distinctions that help you determine if you are ready or not. If you jump in too soon, you run the risk of dating the same guy or girl over and over again that doesn’t meet your standards. It is no fun to keep on attracting and dating Mr or Ms. Wrong instead of Mr. or Ms. Right. Have you ever watched the movie Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts? There is a key take away from this movie that will help you discover if you are ready to date nor not. #datingwithconfidence #drkelly #pinktent #dateyourselffirst #youdoyou #runawaybride #singleandsad #juliaroberts #transformationaltuesday
How do you Spring Clean for Soul Connections?
I remember what it was like balling my eyes out to my mother when I was single and really thought something was wrong with me. At 34 years old, all my friends were getting married and having kids. I was really starting to feel like the 3rd wheel with partnered up friends. I was on Match.com at the time and I would have said that it was more like match.bomb! I thought that my expectations were too high…and yet there was so much more. My Mom advised me to keep going and keep my head high. She told me to have FAITH. Today I would like to share an exercise that I use with my clients to help clear emotional baggage that causes us so much suffering. What is the dating crisis you are really experiencing that causes you to
-Keep attracting the same unhealthy relationship again and again
-Wonder why you procrastinate getting on dating apps
-Lose confidence in the HOPE of finding your Partner…your Happily Ever After
then join me in today’s powerful #transformationalTuesday exercise that can be done in just 5-10 minutes
#DrKelly #datingcoach #PinkTent #datingwithconfidence #MamaGena #SpringCleaning #match #positivesingles #shameless
Did you know that herpes symptoms in women can be confused with many common conditions? 85% of people with herpes don’t know they have it! Common symptoms include blisters, sores, itchy areas, tingling, burning, painful urination, skin fissures and cracks, skin ulcers, swollen lymph nodes, fatigue, depression, pain down the leg, flu like symptoms, body aches and watery vaginal discharge; but how do you know if it is herpes? I have worked with women who were misdiagnosed with several other ailments before they were ever PROPERLY diagnosed with herpes.
Why does this happen?
Herpes is truly the Great Masquerader. Doctors and patients alike misdiagnose herpes all the time. Here is a chart of what women with herpes think they have and what men with herpes think they have.
What Women With Herpes Think They Have
What Men With Herpes Think They Have
Urinary Tract Infection
Insect or Spider Bite
Allergy to condoms, spermicides, sperm, elastic/pantyhose
Allergies to condoms
Irritation from bike seat, shaving, douching
Irritation from bike seat, tight jeans, sexual intercourse
As you can see, it would be very easy to misdiagnosis herpes in women AND men. So, if you have any or many of these symptoms, especially if they are reoccurring, I suggest that you seek medical advice. You have to take control of your health and sometimes it means challenging your doctor’s diagnosis. There have been times when I have encouraged women to demand a herpes blood test. Not knowing can drive you crazy! A simple blood test paired with a thorough exam can determine your herpes status. You can find a herpes testing center near you. I also recommend getting screened for other STI’s.
If you end up testing positive for herpes, Pink Tent (TM) is here it support you. We are committed to educate, empower and inspire women with herpes to live, love and thrive. If you reside in the Boulder/Denver area, check our www.ColoradoHFriends.com. We host monthly discussion groups, social events and women’s brunches. Take a stand for your health and get tested!