There was a time in my life, over a decade actually, when I dated a man for several years who was emotionally abusive and manipulative.
It was CODEPENDENCE at its finest!
I had so much shame around the fact that I allowed him to treat me that way.
I lived each day like I was walking on eggshells, wondering when he might blow up again.
I lost myself in his control and found myself isolated from all of my family, friends and even the deeper connection I had with myself.
I became a shell of a person, in hopes of pleasing him and receiving his love.
It took me years to finally break it off with him. I remember a defining moment when I realized I had not allowed myself to exercise my body other than the mellow yoga that he thought I should be doing.
Are you a strong woman, but when it comes to romance you lose your power and confidence?
For years even after the breakup, when I would think about my past I felt so disempowered.
Now, the memories make me feel MORE empowered!
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The sun is shining, the smell of plumerias fills my lungs and a warm gentle breeze tickles my face.
This is paradise!!!
It would be hard NOT to let all of this beauty in; and yet some how people do.
Somehow, they are able to put their walls up so strongly that they bring their woeful stories with them, even to paradise! Maybe their poolside drink isn’t cold enough, or someone forgot to place the candy on thier pillow or the ocean is too rough to swim.
Somehow…you know who those people are….unsatisfaction with life follows them everywhere they go.
When it comes to finding deep,intimate love, it starts with a decision to choose it. To let one’s walls down and to be willing to let the love in that is already available to you right NOW!
You see, the reason we want ANYTHING in life is what you THINK it will provide you with.
Most of the women I work say that they are searching for LOVE.
Searching for companionship
Searching for someone to share their day with
Searching for someone to support them through life’s challenges
They sooooo much want to find LOVE and yet they are unwilling to recognize and be grateful for the LOVE that is all around them..
It’s kind of like being in paradise and NOT seeing the beauty that is all around.
When you bless the universe and thank if for the LOVE that you already have, then it will want to provide you with more
I challenge you to see how you can feel love and choose love now…
Feel in in your heart and soul
Relish in it
Imagine a warm embrace, a passionate kiss
and flood your body with all of those warm feelings NOW
the hormones of LOVE will begin to rush through your body and start to give you the high you are looking for
Before you know it, you will see LOVE walking right into your life in the form of you forever KING