There was a time in my life, over a decade actually, when I dated a man for several years who was emotionally abusive and manipulative.
It was CODEPENDENCE at its finest!
I had so much shame around the fact that I allowed him to treat me that way.
I lived each day like I was walking on eggshells, wondering when he might blow up again.
I lost myself in his control and found myself isolated from all of my family, friends and even the deeper connection I had with myself.
I became a shell of a person, in hopes of pleasing him and receiving his love.
It took me years to finally break it off with him. I remember a defining moment when I realized I had not allowed myself to exercise my body other than the mellow yoga that he thought I should be doing.
Are you a strong woman, but when it comes to romance you lose your power and confidence?
For years even after the breakup, when I would think about my past I felt so disempowered.
Now, the memories make me feel MORE empowered!
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