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3 Gifts Of The Corona Pandemic

It’s hard to escape the fear of this pandemic, yet on today’s call, I’ll be exploring the 3 gifts of the Corona Pandemic.

I have been praying and meditating for several days now searching for the deeper meaning and the gifts this virus is here to teach us.

The first clue came through as a friend was sharing what she learned.

Join me as I share these 3 gifts.

Will you accept these gifts?

#coronavirus #giftsofcorona #pandemic #overcomingfear #TransformationalTuesday #DrKelly #datingcoach #lovecoach

Do You Stay Or Should You Go? 6 Dimensions Of Love

It can be hard to determine how fulfilled you are in a relationship. You can have good days and bad days, but overall how can you determine how fulfilled you are?

My husband and I went to a workshop this past weekend to learn and grow in our relationship. We learned from Robin Temple, Relating With Heart, how to determine the different areas of fulfillment when it comes to love.

You can use these 6 Dimensions Of Love to assess your current relationship and also figure out how you can become more fulfilled.

Listen in this #transformationaltuesday as I describe the 6 Dimensions Of Love and how you can use these to determine how fulfilled you truly are.

If you are a single, successful woman wanting to find lasting love this year, be sure to check our our Life Long Love Academy at www.DrKellyLive.com

#drkelly #lovecoach #denversingles #lovedimensions #morelove #datingcoach #dating #lovecoach #lifelongloveacademy

Are Your Words Ruining Your Love Life?

Words can hurt and words can heal. They can also self-sabotage the very thing your heart desires.

Whether you are in a significant relationship or not, becoming conscious of the words you use is a powerful step to becoming more empowered in creating the life and love you desire.

We live in a world where everything seems to be dramatized and mostly negative. The media feeds us stories that place us in fear and often desparation.

What kind of words are you using when you reflect on your love life or dating?

What words do you use to describe men or men in relationships?

Do these words uplift you or disempower you to the point where you feel like love will never happen to you or that being treated like a Queen is out of the question?

In today’s #TransformationalTuesday we will discuss how powerful your words are and how you can use “brainwashing” to your advantage.

#consciouswords #lovecoach #dating #single #empoweringwords #lovingwords #oceansoflove #fearorlove #attractinglove

Wired For Love or War?

Over the past several weeks, I have felt so vulnerable, sad and disconnected from my husband.

Tears and tears of unexpressed anger, grief and deep sadness has surfaced to be healed.

Are you wired for love or war? How did your early childhood memories impact your ability to create a healthy, loving secure partnership?

According to Stan Tatkin, author of Wired For Dating and Wired For Love, we are instinctually wired for war first and foremost.

It allows us to survive at its most primal function.

But what about LOVE?

Why do some people find it so much easier and how does our upbringing impact our current relationships?

Tune in today as I share how Attachment Theory impacts our current relationships.

After listening, let us know if you identify more with the Secure, Island or Wave attachment.

I’ll let you know what I have discovered and how my 5 year old version of me is now being nurtured and heard.

#TransformationalTuesday #Attachment #LoveorWar #WiredForLove #lovecoach #dating #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #DrKelly #StanTatkin #healinghearts

Are you Addicted to being single?

Might you be ADDICTED to being SINGLE?

I have been investigating WHY women who say they want a relationship…

but keep finding themselves SINGLE.

Might being single be an addiction?

If so, how can you break that addiction so that you can find yourself in loving partnership?

I want you to think for a moment…

Would you spend more energy to avoid PAIN or seek PLEASURE?

Think about it for a moment.

We are neurologically wired from our primal brain to avoid pain at all costs.

It is what keeps us SAFE

Now, I want you to think about your relationship to being SINGLE vs your relationship to being in an intimate relationship.

In our #TransformationalTuesday discussion, we will be exploring how you might actually be addicted to being single.

AND

How to BREAK that addiction..

I promise, it’s not a 12 step system

It’s a little secret that makes all the difference…

It is exactly what is needed to move you from the
single category—–>in a relationship category in no time.

#addiction #healthyrelationship #single #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #drkelly #dating #magnetizeyourman #personalgrowth #drjoedispenza #manifestyourdreams #stopselfsabotaging #singleaddiction

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Gratitude For Your Ex: Even If He Treated You Like #@!$

There was a time in my life, over a decade actually, when I dated a man for several years who was emotionally abusive and manipulative.

It was CODEPENDENCE at its finest!

I had so much shame around the fact that I allowed him to treat me that way.

I lived each day like I was walking on eggshells, wondering when he might blow up again.

I lost myself in his control and found myself isolated from all of my family, friends and even the deeper connection I had with myself.

I became a shell of a person, in hopes of pleasing him and receiving his love.

It took me years to finally break it off with him. I remember a defining moment when I realized I had not allowed myself to exercise my body other than the mellow yoga that he thought I should be doing.

Sound familiar?

Are you a strong woman, but when it comes to romance you lose your power and confidence?

For years even after the breakup, when I would think about my past I felt so disempowered.

Now, the memories make me feel MORE empowered!

Want to know the trick and how to use gratitude, Roles and Reframing to set yourself free from the memories of your Ex?

Join me in a conversation that is both intimate and incredibly healing.

This ONE piece of insight could allow you to heal your heart and prep you for intimacy to finally, let love in!

#transformationaltuesday #powerofthereframe #shame #release #gratitude #datingcoach #thanksgiving #choosegratitude #myteacher #drkelly #singlewomen #powerfulpractice #openyourheart #conomo #codepency #findinglove #truelove
#surrenderyourshame

Not feeling sexy in your body or confident in dating?

 

Overcoming Over-Giving This Holiday Season

3 Keys To Overcome Over-Giving This Holiday Season

I come from a long line of amazing women who give so much. In fact, they give SO much, they often stop caring for themselves.

The holidays are upon us and tis the season to give.

BUT

Do you need to give SOOO much there is nothing left of YOU!

As women, we take on so many roles.

Sister, Friend, Girlfriend, Career, Daughter, Wife, Mother etc….

and so many of you complain to me that no one is there to give to you.

You complain that you are exhausted and resentful that your relationships seem more one sided.

As my daughter is frolicing around the house with her Santa Claus hat and doing beautiful acts of service, it also reminded me of so many of you who are dreading the uber busy season.

In this video, I speak about how YOU can Overcome this Over-Giving and start practicing RECEIVING

Join us in this #TransformationalTuesday where I outline 3 Key things you can do to break this underlying bad habit that leaves you depleted and feeling unworthy of LOVE.

#worthiness #diygifts #selfcare #overgiving #selflove #drkelly #dating #healthypartnership #sayno #thanksgiving #holidays

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Reduce stress and have more fun on your next date…

For many women, dating is synonymous with stress and overwhelm, but it doesn’t need to be that way.

What if it were more associated with play, fun and curiosity?

In today’s #TransformationalTuesday I am going to share a key distinction that will take you from stress to peace, fear to curiosity and dread to openness.

-Learn the key of where to focus your mind if you want to enjoy yourself more on your next date
-Discover the hazards of ruminating on the past or even in the future
-Uncover a natural ability you had as a child to have more fun with someone you know very little about

 

#dating #datingcoach #lovecoach #magnetizeyourman #consciousdating #drkelly #pinktent

Not feeling sexy in your body or confident in dating?

 

Want more FLOW in your LOVE life?

Are you struggling to find FLOW in your dating life?

Research has shown us that there is a 4 Step Process to create more FLOW in your life.

Where are you on the Map of Flow?

I discovered where I was last week during a healing ceremony I had with a group of women.

We were asked to bring something from home that we were ready to let go of.

In today’s #TransformationalTuesday I am going to share what I released and how it has opened up something inside of me.

Once you know where you are on the map, then you can better navigate what’s next.

This is the KEY to more ease, grace, joy and FLOW.

And…FLOW has been something I have studied for years.

In fact, the style of chiropractic I practiced was called FLOW.

This roadmap truly explained flow at the level even a kindergartner could understand.

Join in as we all invite more FLOW into our LOVE life and life in general.

#1440 #FLOW #datingcoach #selflove #MoreFlow #scienceofflow #drkelly #lovecoach #divinefeminine #queenmedicine

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