pinkturtle62

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  • in reply to: Any Positive Stories? #44948
    pinkturtle62
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    wow!! I love your bravery about putting it in your bio. I have thought about that to help me with disclosing because I always have so much anxiety about it and have been rejected as well. My fear with disclosing similar to how you do it, is that someone who knows me may screenshot my profile and send it to others. I kind of want to still keep my status strictly my business to me and my support group only. I am not yet ready to allow the stigma to define me….i know it doesn’t honestly, but in reality to other people it will.

    in reply to: how do i deal with rejection #44947
    pinkturtle62
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    I wish I could give advice but I am sort of in the same boat. Ive probably had all experiences you could think of. I told someone who i had already been with my updated status and they thanked me and we still have sex currently although I do think he is more cautious which still sucks, but not as much. I told someone new I met, and they did the same and thanked me for telling but then stopped talking to me, and lastly I told someone I had already dealt with and they told me they had it too….so I just think at the end of the day you never know what will happen, so try to stay positive and if the person cares more about the disease you have than who you really are as a person, then they’re not for your anyways. The universe/god what ever you believe in will bring your person right to you when its time!

    in reply to: Newly Diagnosed #44946
    pinkturtle62
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    I was considered newly diagnosed in 2020 during pandemic and I was in a very new and serious relationship at the time. The only upside was that my partner was super supportive during my testing and results and didnt break up with me afterwards. We arent together now, and I did transfer the disease to him. I felt nothing but negativity during the time and still do. I still feel i have been robbed of my old freedoms while trying to date and meet new people but two years later I feel everything has happened for a reason and although coping with this is still hard, I’m glad to say it has gotten easier. Somehow….

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