Was I cheated on?

[alexisdeas]

I’ve just been diagnosed, the issue is I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years, and 4 years ago we did break up and he slept with someone else, but he claims he hasn’t ever since then, and I truly believe him after doing some research and finding one of us could’ve had it and not even known, this is my first big outbreak and I’ve always been prone to infections down below, and maybe what I thought was regular infection was HSV the whole time. Has anyone else had a diagnosis and outbreak after so many years? Am I being lied to? We’re technically not even really together at the moment so I feel like he has no reason to lie. And he hasn’t had any problems at all with his penis, ever, the whole time we’ve been together, have I just had it for 7 years?

[Kaliyan]

I’m struggling with how long I might have had it in my system too. Been with my partner for six years and I have zero reason to believe he’d cheat. I was with my baby’s father ten years ago. I wouldn’t be surprised if he cheated in the two years we were together. Five years before him I was with someone for three years who also cheated. So in a period of 19 years I’ve been with three people and I’ve never had an outbreak. I’m really struggling. With whether or not it’s even the right diagnosis as it makes no sense in my mind. Just got blood work today to see about confirmation. I’m sorry no one has responded to you before today.

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