God, what a terrible story, I’m sorry to read it. You can look me up on here and see all of my details, but my husband knew he had herpes for 20 years before ever even meeting me and then claims he forgot he had it. I knew I had an issue and spent years in and out of doctors offices before I finally found sores and received a proper diagnosis and confession from my now ex-husband. He still attributes his behavior to a societal problem (which I agree it is) but people also know that they aren’t supposed to be passing this on to others. If you have a video, and could get some kind of proof that this woman knew she had it, then you might be able to prosecute her. I cannot believe how inhumane someone must be to just keep infecting other people without giving them any warnings and then to send a video, yuck. Again so sorry that this happened, I wish you the best on your journey through this. It’s amazing to me that we could just educate each other and eradicate this in a few generations but instead we spend millions on research, literally infecting other species of animals just to study them. It’s very sad when you think about it.