I am going crazy. I slept with someone new after being in a relationship for 5 years(ended a few months ago). I noticed a sore down there a few days after being sexually active with the new guy. I immediately went to Herpes, and so I went to the doctor to get tested. They did blood work, and urine sample for everything. Couldn’t swab the area because it was crusted over but said it looked like an ingrown hair. Everything came back negative.. fast forward a week and I have another outbreak and this time it’s in clusters and looks just like herpes. I went back to the doctor today and they were able to swab the area. I am so uncomfortable, I feel so gross and can’t think straight. How am I ever going to find someone that is going to be ok with this?