I just started dating this guy and the talk went really well. He is such a sweetheart. I just told him a few days ago and we are getting ready to go on another date tonight. Do you ladies require your partners to get tested? I started thinking about it and realized that if he has herpes and doesn’t know it, wouldn’t it be better to know now? I guess I worry that he might be one of those people that has it and doesn’t know it. If I knew he already had it and I couldn’t pass it onto him, I wouldn’t be so scared about transmitting it to him. We could have sex and not worry about things. What do you ladies do?