I hope this is a safe space to share my story. I am a female, who is dating a female. We have been dating 6 months and she is just now telling me that she has genital herpes. She has basically had it since she was a teen (we are in our 40s). I casually asked if she has ever had an STD and was surprised when she told me. I feel betrayed that she waited so long to tell me and that I had to ask. I know it is not an easy conversation to have. Am I overreacting for feeling so betrayed?