Come Inside The Tent: Rewriting Your Love Story
After my herpes diagnosis when I was 23 years old, I felt so dirty, shameful and unloveable. I thought no one would ever love me and that I could never bear children naturally. This diagnosis rocked my world!
In fact, this stigmatizing diagnosis brought to light the sexual shame I had carried for over a decade after being sexually abused for years by my junior high school teacher.
Truthfully, I thought I had healed and yet I couldn’t figure out why I tended to date men who were manipulative, narcissistic or who had substance abuse problems.
Now looking back, I also can see how I had developed some co-dependency and self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors!
I’ll never forget the day that I forgave myself for thinking that it was all my fault. On that day, I reclaimed my innocence and reclaimed my fractured and silent sexual self.
“Heal The Girl and the Woman Will Arise” – Dr. Kelly
I realized that my love life was a mess because I had never really felt worthy of love and I thought that somehow, deep down, I was broken.
Now, if I had…
done Nothing and Stayed Silent….
the darkness of sexual shame would have eventually consumed me.
A long, slow, dimming of my light and quite possibly some health challenges would have eventually ensued.
Instead, I committed to my LIGHT, my VOICE, my Power and my TRUTH!
If I can marry my Soul Mate and become a mother at 34 years old, then your dreams can come true too!
I’m no hero, I’m a woman just like you who wanted passion, love, and connection and I was willing to do whatever it took to get it.
ARE YOU READY FOR CHANGE?
Every client I work with has her own unique story (HERstory) to share.
At the root of almost every HERstory is the fear of being unlovable or not good enough. While I am not a therapist or counselor, I am a change agent. I am a woman, doctor, mother, wife, sister, friend, healer, author, coach and lover of life and people.
I have always had this natural gift of connecting with people and hearing what isn’t said and knowing how to bring light to the darkness….to teach divine surrender, grace, forgiveness and love.
I spent two plus years in therapy and have gained more clarity, perspective and direction for my life in working with Dr. Kelly Martin Schuh in only a few short months. Instead of talking each week about what’s going wrong in my life we focus on creating the life I want. She has made me see that I am the Director of my life and all things are possible. Not only does she hold me accountable for my personal growth she makes me hold myself accountable. I am still a work in progress and I am learning through her coaching in order for things to change I must change! As I the director of the film “My New Fabulous Life” I can’t wait for it all to unfold and I feel truly blessed to work with her!
I know what it takes to transform shame and pain into peace, passion and optimal health.
I get fired up when I witness a woman reignite her power of unlimited potential. My philosophy on life and coaching is that you are perfect just the way you are. You are brilliant and beautiful and in no way are you broken. In a coaching relationship, we build upon your strengths and give you the tools to embark on your journey towards success, whatever that looks like.
You too can Rewrite Your Happily-Ever-After Love Story
It just takes a moment to decide that you no longer want to live in sadness, shame and isolation.
Say YES to love and book your Irresistible YOU call today!
I discovered Dr. Kelly at a really pivotal time in my life. She was the voice I needed to help create my paradigm shift. She saw the potential in me to be fearless and she pulled it out! I greatly appreciate her compassion and authentic style. For anyone who desires change and immediate results I would suggest working with Dr. Kelly. Candace
My Commitment To You
In a world where women hide in the shadows of sexual shaming with their light dimmed, their voices muted, and their power shackled, they self-sabotage and isolate themselves from their true potential.
I am committed to helping you heal the past, soar above your limiting stories, and reclaim your powerful feminine sexuality to birth your Happily-Ever-After Love Story. In working together, we will unleash the Goddess Within and return you to the truth of who you really are.
After your free coaching session, I will create a coaching program that is a perfect fit for you. This is determined by what your goals are and how often you will be receiving support from me. This is an investment in your dreams and as such, it is appropriately priced.
Typically, the shortest recommended engagement is six months, but there are clients that continue to work with me for years because of the results they receive in other areas of their lives. Typically, it takes at least 6 months to break self-sabotaging behaviors and patterns and to create new ones for lasting success to create your Happily-Ever-After Love story.
Everything you share with me in a private coaching session is 100% confidential, unless law requires disclosure. A clear confidentiality agreement is in place for all coaching clients.
Due to the high demand of my individual coaching, I frequently have a waitlist for my practice. During these times, you will have the opportunity to be placed on the waitlist and I will notify you when an opening is available.
Group coaching is often an excellent resource for women who are looking to grow within a community setting. For some, the fees associated with individual coaching make group coaching an excellent alternative. Check out our group coaching offers to see if this is a fit for you.
All you need to do is fill out the form below. If after reading your submission, I feel that we would make a great pair, then I will send you instructions to register for a FREE Irresistible You coaching session. This will give us the chance to see if there is synergy in a coaching relationship.
I coach women from around the world over the phone and/or Internet. My clients are responsible for any long distance fees.
What does a typical coaching session look like?
Most of my coaching sessions are held for 50 minutes and they are done over the phone or Internet. Each session is totally different depending on the clients needs. Some sessions focus more on the emotions of transformation, whereas others are more structured and focused on the mechanics of success. In life, 80% of success in psychological and 20% is mechanical. In coaching, we work on both for the greatest potential for outstanding results.
I am committed to educating, empowering and inspiring women to live, love and thrive. Intuition, wisdom and connected listening are the source of my power to help guide you to reach a level of health and happiness that you may have never thought was possible. If you are committed to living the life of your dreams and you’re willing to do the work, then I’m your gal. If you answer YES to most or all of these statements, then you are an excellent candidate.
- I am committed to my personal growth and development.
- I want to live a fulfilling, balanced life and believe it is possible.
- I can be truthful with myself.
- I am willing to question my assumptions and challenge myself.
- I am willing to experiment with new perspectives or different ways of doing things.
- I am willing to ask for what I want and need from the coach and the process.
- I see coaching as a valuable investment and I have the funds to pay for coaching
- I am able to stretch myself and work outside of my comfort zone.
- I am accountable for the results I produce in my life.
Therapy is intended to heal or treat a disorder. I am not a therapist or counselor. The biggest difference between therapy and life coaching is that I do not believe you are broken. You are whole and complete. My job is to create an environment where you can access the wisdom and healing that lies within. This is where the magic and miracles ignite and rewrite your story. I believe in you!
Here’s what women are saying….
To a dreamer, a believer, a survivor: About a year ago, I was diagnosed with Herpes Simplex-2. While the diagnosis and emotions that come with it were overwhelming at the time, I knew I could get through it. The summer continued on and I was distracted and busy traveling. Later in the fall, life started to slow down, and I was left with my mind, my raw emotional feelings, and my reality. I was left feeling speechless, almost numb, and similar to when other horrible events have occurred in my life. I’ve had close family members pass away, and there is a grieving process that people go through when they encounter death, and sometimes you don’t know what that process is until you go through it. I hate to compare having herpes with death, but my journey over the last year has felt like a grieving process, grieving the loss of something, some way of life I once knew. I started going to a local counselor in the fall to not only address and truly recognize this new diagnosis in my life, but to really understand the feelings that were coming up from deep within me to the surface with full force. I couldn’t ignore these feelings any longer, feelings I have had for a long time, but had never been forced to pay this much attention to, until now. I didn’t realize to what extent poor self-image, lack of confidence, and overall insecurities impacted my life until then. I worked through a lot in those 2 months, knowing I was doing powerful work that would change my life, but work that also felt hard, sobering and depressing. How had I arrived here? Where would this take me? Would this diagnosis continue to define me?
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