Want to feel Irresistible and Confident in dating?

Feeling hopeless about dating and wondering whether you will be single forever? Feel like part of you is broken or unworthy of love? “Dating Down?”…wondering why you date the same loser over and over again?

Just fill out the form and if I feel we are a potential great fit for coaching, you will receive a FREE Irresistible You one-on-one session with me.
In this 30 minute session, you will…

In this 30 minute session, you will…

– Get Clear. Discover exactly what your Happily-Ever-After Love Story would look like. The Universal Law of Attraction is at play here. So, the clearer you are on exactly what type of partner and relationship you want, the more likely you are to magnetize it into your life.

– Get Perspective. Many of you have never shared your secrets of sexual abuse, STD’s or sexual body shaming with anyone! These very secrets shackle you at best to a mediocre life. A life that is at best OK, but deep down you feel all alone, hopeless and unworthy of love. I get you sister! Let’s get to the root cause of why you can’t seem to crack the code for LOVE and discover your pathway to becoming Irresistible!

– Get Support. Very few people (if any) achieve anything great alone. Receive the love and support you so deserve.

“Dr. Kelly I want to thank you for your invaluable support over the past months. I had no idea that I could be in such a good place, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I’ve never felt more confident and abundant! I’ve had all the knowledge and tools through my positive psychology work but it has taken my time with you to really put them to use and come into my innate awesomeness! I truly feel like I have grown in leaps and bounds since we met in late May. The world is completely opening up to me and I’m excited to see what is in store. With gratitude and love, Betsy <3” – Betsy

Come Inside The Tent: Rewriting Your Love Story

After my herpes diagnosis when I was 23 years old, I felt so dirty, shameful and unloveable. I thought no one would ever love me and that I could never bear children naturally. This diagnosis rocked my world!

In fact, this stigmatizing diagnosis brought to light the sexual shame I had carried for over a decade after being sexually abused for years by my junior high school teacher.

Truthfully, I thought I had healed and yet I couldn’t figure out why I tended to date men who were manipulative, narcissistic or who had substance abuse problems.

Now looking back, I also can see how I had developed some co-dependency and self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors!

I’ll never forget the day that I forgave myself for thinking that it was all my fault. On that day, I reclaimed my innocence and reclaimed my fractured and silent sexual self.

“Heal The Girl and the Woman Will Arise” Dr. Kelly

I realized that my love life was a mess because I had never really felt worthy of love and I thought that somehow, deep down, I was broken.

Now, if I had…
done Nothing and Stayed Silent….

the darkness of sexual shame would have eventually consumed me.

A long, slow, dimming of my light and quite possibly some health challenges would have eventually ensued.

Instead, I committed to my LIGHT, my VOICE, my Power and my TRUTH!

If I can marry my Soul Mate and become a mother at 34 years old, then your dreams can come true too!

I’m no hero, I’m a woman just like you who wanted passion, love, and connection and I was willing to do whatever it took to get it.


Every client I work with has her own unique story (HERstory) to share.
At the root of almost every HERstory is the fear of being unlovable or not good enough. While I am not a therapist or counselor, I am a change agent. I am a woman, doctor, mother, wife, sister, friend, healer, author, coach and lover of life and people.

I have always had this natural gift of connecting with people and hearing what isn’t said and knowing how to bring light to the darkness….to teach divine surrender, grace, forgiveness and love.

I spent two plus years in therapy and have gained more clarity, perspective and direction for my life in working with Dr. Kelly Martin Schuh in only a few short months. Instead of talking each week about what’s going wrong in my life we focus on creating the life I want. She has made me see that I am the Director of my life and all things are possible. Not only does she hold me accountable for my personal growth she makes me hold myself accountable. I am still a work in progress and I am learning through her coaching in order for things to change I must change! As I the director of the film “My New Fabulous Life” I can’t wait for it all to unfold and I feel truly blessed to work with her!

I know what it takes to transform shame and pain into peace, passion and optimal health.

I get fired up when I witness a woman reignite her power of unlimited potential. My philosophy on life and coaching is that you are perfect just the way you are. You are brilliant and beautiful and in no way are you broken. In a coaching relationship, we build upon your strengths and give you the tools to embark on your journey towards success, whatever that looks like.

You too can Rewrite Your Happily-Ever-After Love Story

It just takes a moment to decide that you no longer want to live in sadness, shame and isolation.
Say YES to love and book your Irresistible YOU call today!

I discovered Dr. Kelly at a really pivotal time in my life. She was the voice I needed to help create my paradigm shift. She saw the potential in me to be fearless and she pulled it out! I greatly appreciate her compassion and authentic style. For anyone who desires change and immediate results I would suggest working with Dr. Kelly. Candace

My Commitment To You
In a world where women hide in the shadows of sexual shaming with their light dimmed, their voices muted, and their power shackled, they self-sabotage and isolate themselves from their true potential.

I am committed to helping you heal the past, soar above your limiting stories, and reclaim your powerful feminine sexuality to birth your Happily-Ever-After Love Story. In working together, we will unleash the Goddess Within and return you to the truth of who you really are.

What are my fees?

After your free coaching session, I will create a coaching program that is a perfect fit for you. This is determined by what your goals are and how often you will be receiving support from me. This is an investment in your dreams and as such, it is appropriately priced.

How long does an engagement last?

Typically, the shortest recommended engagement is six months, but there are clients that continue to work with me for years because of the results they receive in other areas of their lives. Typically, it takes at least 6 months to break self-sabotaging behaviors and patterns and to create new ones for lasting success to create your Happily-Ever-After Love story.

Is coaching confidential?

Everything you share with me in a private coaching session is 100% confidential, unless law requires disclosure. A clear confidentiality agreement is in place for all coaching clients.

What if I’m waitlisted for individual coaching?

Due to the high demand of my individual coaching, I frequently have a waitlist for my practice. During these times, you will have the opportunity to be placed on the waitlist and I will notify you when an opening is available.

Group coaching is often an excellent resource for women who are looking to grow within a community setting. For some, the fees associated with individual coaching make group coaching an excellent alternative. Check out our group coaching offers to see if this is a fit for you.

How do I claim my FREE Irresistible You coaching session?

All you need to do is fill out the form below. If after reading your submission, I feel that we would make a great pair, then I will send you instructions to register for a FREE Irresistible You coaching session. This will give us the chance to see if there is synergy in a coaching relationship.

Do I work with people in person?

I coach women from around the world over the phone and/or Internet. My clients are responsible for any long distance fees.

What does a typical coaching session look like?
Most of my coaching sessions are held for 50 minutes and they are done over the phone or Internet. Each session is totally different depending on the clients needs. Some sessions focus more on the emotions of transformation, whereas others are more structured and focused on the mechanics of success. In life, 80% of success in psychological and 20% is mechanical. In coaching, we work on both for the greatest potential for outstanding results.

How do you know if you are a good candidate to personally work with me?

I am committed to educating, empowering and inspiring women to live, love and thrive. Intuition, wisdom and connected listening are the source of my power to help guide you to reach a level of health and happiness that you may have never thought was possible. If you are committed to living the life of your dreams and you’re willing to do the work, then I’m your gal. If you answer YES to most or all of these statements, then you are an excellent candidate.

  • I am committed to my personal growth and development.
  • I want to live a fulfilling, balanced life and believe it is possible.
  • I can be truthful with myself.
  • I am willing to question my assumptions and challenge myself.
  • I am willing to experiment with new perspectives or different ways of doing things.
  • I am willing to ask for what I want and need from the coach and the process.
  • I see coaching as a valuable investment and I have the funds to pay for coaching
  • I am able to stretch myself and work outside of my comfort zone.
  • I am accountable for the results I produce in my life.
What is the difference between therapy and life coaching?

Therapy is intended to heal or treat a disorder. I am not a therapist or counselor. The biggest difference between therapy and life coaching is that I do not believe you are broken. You are whole and complete. My job is to create an environment where you can access the wisdom and healing that lies within. This is where the magic and miracles ignite and rewrite your story. I believe in you!

Here’s what women are saying….

Candace -

I discovered Dr. Kelly at a really pivotal time in my life. She was the voice I needed to help create my paradigm shift. She saw the potential in me to be fearless and she pulled it out! I greatly appreciate her compassion and authentic style. For anyone who desires change and immediate results I would suggest working with Dr. Kelly. 


Katie -

To a dreamer, a believer, a survivor: About a year ago, I was diagnosed with Herpes Simplex-2. While the diagnosis and emotions that come with it were overwhelming at the time, I knew I could get through it. The summer continued on and I was distracted and busy traveling. Later in the fall, life started to slow down, and I was left with my mind, my raw emotional feelings, and my reality. I was left feeling speechless, almost numb, and similar to when other horrible events have occurred in my life. I’ve had close family members pass away, and there is a grieving process that people go through when they encounter death, and sometimes you don’t know what that process is until you go through it. I hate to compare having herpes with death, but my journey over the last year has felt like a grieving process, grieving the loss of something, some way of life I once knew. I started going to a local counselor in the fall to not only address and truly recognize this new diagnosis in my life, but to really understand the feelings that were coming up from deep within me to the surface with full force. I couldn’t ignore these feelings any longer, feelings I have had for a long time, but had never been forced to pay this much attention to, until now. I didn’t realize to what extent poor self-image, lack of confidence, and overall insecurities impacted my life until then. I worked through a lot in those 2 months, knowing I was doing powerful work that would change my life, but work that also felt hard, sobering and depressing. How had I arrived here? Where would this take me? Would this diagnosis continue to define me?

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Kimberly V. -

“It is so exhilarating to have a voice and still know I am well. How do I know this? Because one brave and courageous woman dared to climb the mountain before us and guide us to the top; so that we would feel the beauty and splendor all around us, but mainly, and most importantly, within us. -Kimberly V.


Celina B. -

“With your help I feel like I am a better me! I started off on this journey with a broken heart and soul; I thought I could never be loved again. Being diagnosed with Herpes has been just the toughest thing I have ever done. The first part of my healing did not happen in the gyno office! I was on the path to healing; not just the Herpes but the emotional turmoil that this tiny virus sent me through. With your genuine compassion, empathy, knowledge and concern your sessions catapulted me into a deep love for myself. Your guidance, words of wisdom, exercises and being able to hear your voice and the most significant thing in those sessions was your presence. You helped me open the doors to my life. I’m truly grateful for all that you helped me with! Graduate school is great, my self-esteem is great, and I finally feel a freedom for the first time in 2 years!Thank you, thank you, thank you,Celina B.


Sarah C. -

“Working with Dr Kelly has been lifesaving for me. Dr Kelly is kind, truly compassionate and a brilliant healer. After being diagnosed with genital herpes my world was shattered. I felt depressed confused vulnerable, and all alone. I had almost no information, and very little support. Dr. Kelly's coaching and unique holistic approach has armed me with helpful information and the tools I needed to take better control of my health and my life! As a result I feel healthier, stronger and now full of hope of the future. I still can, and will have the life that I always wanted. Working with Dr. Kelly has been a gift, and at one of the most devastating and difficult times in my life Dr. Kelly has helped me to see that there is a big bright light at the end of the tunnel.” - Sarah C.


Mrs. Lynn -

…“For a couple years now I have just been devastated and feeling absolutely hopeless. I had been through books, late nights on the computer, tried every ointment and pill and multiple doctors, but to no avail! I was miserable with herpes!!! Then I found Dr. Kelly and was able to experience some second to none life coaching. It was during the sessions that my emotional healing began as well as my physical, she taught me they go hand-in-hand. We talked about all sorts of things because she has a holistic approach and a genuine love for people and women. I could be here all day telling you about the benefits that I received from Dr Kelly and her insight, but instead I'll just say it was well worth it and I wouldn't trade it for anything! I'm now on my way to true healing !!! And no longer am hopeless, but full of hope and love myself. - Mrs. Lynn.


April M -

"I recommend Dr. Kelly as a life coach; she’s an inspiring person to work with on a range of life issues. When I was diagnosed with genital herpes a year ago, I decided that the way forward for me was to deepen my commitment to learning how to nurture my health and happiness. Dr. Kelly’s work— her books, website and coaching— has become a valuable part of my support system. Personally, I’ve come to realize that it takes support to move beyond old self-defeating patterns and manifest a life that I love— it’s not something that happens in isolation. Dr. Kelly is a superb resource for both practical and philosophical wisdom, her breadth of life knowledge offers nourishment for the body, mind and soul— and you know it’s real, because she has walked her talk. It’s great to get to work with someone who has actively created, and continues to create, her own best life. I think Dr. Kelly has a gift for distilling her experiences into connected communication that helps people stand in their power."-April M.


Kathryn S -

“Sincere, honest, integrity, empowering, generous, kind, thoughtful, giving, loving, intelligent, and knowledgeable”… I have tried to sum up Dr. Kelly’s coaching in a sentence but I think the former adjectives describe it best. Yes, herpes is how it started but it is a small part of who I realized I am and can be. Through Dr. Kelly's coaching, I have grown and acquired tools I can use daily. I use her book as a reference but I am one who grows from personal interaction. In my past, I solicited a therapist - I believe Dr. Kelly's coaching provides therapy with a human touch. -Kathryn S



Coaching for Women With Herpes