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21 Gifts For The Goddess: A teaching from LUSH

Have you ever been to LUSH? I had an Oprah Winfrey a ha moment in LUSH this weekend with my daughter. I’ll be sharing with you today how their motto and my whole experience with a seashell bath bomb opened up a new world for me and it will for you too. In today’s conversation that will help you own your Inner Goddess, we will be sharing the 21 Gifts Of The Goddess. This has NOTHING to do with LUSH and EVERYTHING to do with LUSH. Know their motto?…I’ll share it with you as it is totally awesome…hint…it’s about LOVE. I just had an ah ha moment this weekend while saying YES to a seashell shaped bath bomb that felt gritty like the sand, shimmered like gold in a basin of water, smelled like the sea and left me hungry for more.

Listen in to today’s #TransformationalTuesday as we discuss…

-Rewiring your brain to enjoy pleasure without feeling guilty

-How to practice the art of receiving, even when you don’t feel worthy of it

-The art of doing nothing and how it can reset your thermostat for love

#lush #21GiftsForTheGoddess #SelfLove #LoveYOUFirst #artofreceiving #dateyourselffirst #goddessbomb #queenwisdom #manifestyourman #lusciousliving #yourworthit #DrKelly #datingcoach #lovecoach #TransformationalTuesday #artofdoingnothing #21daychallenge

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Dating And Being Seen

Are you hiding out when men notice you?
Do you shrink when a man gives you a complement?
Still hiding that body of yours behind baggy pants and MoMo dresses?

If you want a man, you need to take baby steps to open up to intimacy.

In today’s #TransformationalTueday I’ll give you some hot tips to get you more comfortable with been seen.
We’ll discuss…

  • How dating is no different than marketing and how to put your best foot forward
  • How to break the habit of deflecting a compliment
  • How to start feeling worthy of a man’s attention

#lovecoach #beingseen #datingwithconfidence #henotices #theartofreceiving #whensparksfly #confidenceindating #lifelonglove #drkelly #pinktent #nomoreshame

 

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Dreams DO Come True

This month has been absolutely amazing for many of the women in our community. I have been receiving texts, videos, comments, phone calls…you name it about dreams coming true.

Just these past 3 weeks, I have received notices of 2 engagements, a baby being born, women falling in love, a woman leaving her job and traveling the country for a year with her new boyfriend and so many other victories.

If we don’t celebrate our victories or “brag”, how will we know that dreams DO come true.

Now, you may not have had such a fantastic few weeks and maybe stories of celebrations tend to get you down.

In today’s #transformationaltuesday I am going to share with you what YOU need to do to get your dreams to come true.

If someone else has something we want than we know that it is POSSIBLE

So, what does a rear view mirror and a sunflower have to do with your dreams coming true?

Tune in and I’ll tell you all about what you will need so that you will have the next dream story to share with me.

Want to feel Irresistible and get back on track for loving your life.

Book an Irresistible You Breakthrough Coaching Call with me at www.meetme.so/drkelly

#dreamsdocometrue #engaged #marriage #inlove #livingthedream #newlife #marryingyourself #sunflowers #drkelly #pinktent #breakthestigma #happilyeverafter #getacoach #liveyourdreams #relationshiplove #hsv #hsvinthecity

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30 Second Rule: Deepen Your Communication with Men

I know how challenging it can be to effectively communicate with your partners, especially when they repeat themselves or tell us the deets about their cars or things that we aren’t interested in!

We LOVE a good story, but when we hear it for the ump-teeth time, it loses its spark, doesn’t it ladies?

Or how about this….does your mate ever repeat his game plan of how he is planning to fix something?

If you are wanting to feel more connected and inspired by your partner, it will require you to make some changes in how you communicate with him.

You see, men are very problem/solution-oriented and they actually have a purpose behind their repetition, even in storytelling.

We as women communicate very differently.

If we suppose that you truly want a partner in life vs just a relationship, then it’s time to up your game.

In today’s #TransformationalTuesday I am going to share the 30 Seconds Rule to deepen your communication with your man.

I’ll also share how a shift in your perspective could open up so much for you!

This 30 Second Rule combined with some other tips and insights will help you more than you know.

Want more support in dating and partnership? Want to get your needs met?

 

Not feeling sexy in your body or confident in dating?

 

#30secondrule, #drkelly, #truepartnership #dating #cousciousdating #findmyking #datingrules #connection #appreciatehim #pinktent #datingcoach
#datingwithhsv

It’s Never Too Late — To Reclaim Your Power After an STD Diagnosis

Have you been diagnosed with herpes?

There can be so much shame, guilt when you’re diagnosed and a feeling like your life is over.

But believe it or not, having herpes is way more common than you think.

If you’ve been carrying around this deep dark secret for years…you’re not alone!

A high percentage of the population of both women and men have it, or are carriers of herpes and don’t even know it.

So, it’s time to clear up the misconceptions about herpes, as it’s doesn’t have to be a life sentence…otherwise, it can negatively effect your self-esteem and self-confidence in dating.

When you finally meet a man who you have a special connection with…at some point, you’ll be faced with having to have a conversation with him about it.

Your mind starts racing…

WHEN should I bring this up to him?!

And HOW should I bring this up to him?!

Ugh!

This conversation can bring on a great deal of anxiety and panic.

You start feeling like you don’t want to bring it up to him…but, you know you have to be responsible.

And that’s when your mind starts going down the rabbit hole…

What if he freaks out?

What if he doesn’t want to see me anymore?

What if he gets turned off and doesn’t want to sleep with me?

Before you go down the rabbit hole of despair, I’m sharing with you an easy way to have this conversation with a man you’re dating in my amazing interview, “It’s Never Too Late…To Reclaim Your Power After an STD Diagnosis” with Life & Love Transformational Coach, Suzanne Oshima.

#std #herpes #dating #datingadvice #datingtips

 

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Summer Of Love: How one of my clients manifested love in 90 days.

Summer Of Love: How one of my clients manifested love in 90 days.

I remember what it was like when I first started working with Emily. She had been very successful as a real estate agent, but when it came to love, she was hopeless. After being diagnosed with a chronic disease that left her exhausted and burned out, she never thought that anyone would ever love her. On top of that, she felt like she was just too much for men. Too independent, too powerful, and too successful.

All she wanted in life was to have a partnership like her parents. She was convinced there was something wrong with her. As a young person, she never felt like she was comfortable around men.

Once I had the chance to work with her and shatter her limiting beliefs, we set up a game plan for the Summer Of Love.

In this transformational Tuesday, I’m going to share with you what the 3 Step game plan was that allowed her to manifest love in 90 days.

#transformationaltuesday #lovein90days #datingwithconfidence #ownyourworth #drkelly
#manifestlovenow #totallyloveable #nomosexualshame


How To Measure Your Wealth…it’s not what you think

*** How is true wealth measured? ***

It’s not what you think!

Are you feeling like you can never measure up to where you want to be financially? Feeling like you’re always chasing the dollar?

Slow down, sister….and have a listen here.

In honor of my step-father’s passing last night, I would like to teach you what he has taught me about true wealth.

And the truth is…he taught me from how he lived his life.

Do you want more wealth in terms of love and connection?

If so, book a FREE Irresistible You Coaching call with me at https://go.oncehub.com/drkelly

#transformationaltuesday #drkelly #pinktent #truewealth #connections #lovinglife #qualitylife

 


How To Get Your Needs Met: Even If Men Are From Mars

***How To Get Your Needs Met: Even If Men Are From Mars***

In the past several months, I have been studying men and how they best respond to women. I feel so blessed to be married to Richard Schuh who meets my needs in the most unbelievable ways. (We just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary this past week, camping in the mountains of Colorado)

As a transformational coach for women, most of the women I work with are struggling to get their needs met by the men in their lives. They complain that these men don’t care, are lazy, not attuned to detail etc.

Ladies…men are from MARS…but you don’t need to learn martian to better communicate with them.

If you are not getting your needs met, you must be willing to take 50% of the responsibility. You see, our brains are TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

Bathing in Testosterone…men are Singular Focussed vs women who’s brains bathe in Estrogen causing them to have Diffuse Awareness.

As explained in the video, this is a GOOD thing!

The KEY to getting your NEEDS met is to understand our differences and to be able to communicate more clearly in our requests as described in this video.

If you are needing some more support to better your relationships with men, book a complementary Irresistible You Coaching Session with me at www.meetme.so/drkelly

#transformationaltuesday #getyourneedsmet #drkelly #happy #divinefeminine #pinktent #dating #goddess #menarefrommars


10 Tips To 10+ Years Of Happiness In Marriage

It’s been almost 10 years since Richard and I said “I DO” on a beautiful rainy day in Boulder, CO.

In celebration of this journey together, we have decided to share 10 Tips To Thriving In Partnership. We feel so blessed to have found one another, but meeting your Soulmate is not enough to create lasting joy.

What does it take to fall in love and stay in love?

Single and married friends alike have commented over the years how much “we work” and how in love we still seem after nearly a decade. We are spending a week camping in the mountains of the Fraser valley celebrating our partnership and the family we have created.

In this #TransformationalTuesday conversation, we will share our Top 10 tips that can be used to create any thriving and joyful partnership.

#top10tips #livinginjoy #thejoyofpartnership #gratitude #anniversary #soulmateconnections #consciousrelationships #loveafter10years #joyinpartnership #snowmountainranch #ymca #chooselove #pinktent #drkelly #relationshipcoach #intimacycoach #thesecondmountain #davidbrooks

Feeling hopeless about dating and wondering whether you will be single forever? Let’s unleash the Goddess Within and return you to the truth of who you really are. Become an Irresistible You! Yes Please!


How are you emasculating men and how to stop it?

Growing up in a family of strong women, I have always been interested in women’s empowerment. But, just in the past few weeks, I have been investigating emasculation. It is the other side of the coin which I have not really been very sympathetic towards.

It all stemmed from an argument I had with my husband several weeks ago when he was feeling unseen and under-appreciated. It hurt me so much to see how true this was for him. At the time, I was in a state of overwhelm with work and admittedly had not been emotionally as engaged with him as normal.

So, like the personal growth junkie I am, I took total, 100% responsibility for the part I played in this. I also spent some time becoming more aware of how I and the society around us emasculates men. Becoming conscious is truly the first step to be able to make any kind of change.

The first thing I noticed in my own house is how we would make fun of boys being boys and how “icky” they are. (Mind you, these were conversations with my 8 year old daughter). What seems so innocent at first, when you are more aware you notice how frequent such comments are being made, even by men. The first thing I did was to bring this to my husbands attention and shortly there after I overheard him talking to my daughter and letting her know that boys are awesome too! It was as if he took pride in it and took personal responsibility for a more global problem.

If men and women are to co exist, we need to find a place of true partnership. Men and Women are very different and we should seek to understand and celebrate our uniqueness.

I have also realized in the past few weeks that I don’t really understand men and I am wanting to open up more space in my heart for them. It’s as if I love the main male figures in my life, mainly my husband, father, and great grandfather and yet I inherently know that we are wired differently and I often don’t understand how they think or act.

I am committed to learning more about men so that I can connect with them more deeply. Isn’t it funny how this guidance is coming through a week before Father’s day.

So, my challenge for you is to notice where you emasculate men and automatically rob them of their strengths and greatness. I am shocked at how much I do this based on so much conditioning from my family and environment.

If I want to be the most empowered woman, then I must take a stand for men being the most empowered men. We truly do need one another and we all need to be loved, heard and seen.

#womensempowerment #transformationaltuesday #drkelly #consciousdating #appreciatemen #heartopening #pinktent #loveistheanswer #happyfathersday #allisonarmstrong